Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Do I look older?



Well, now that you mention it, you do seem to be growing more mature. Your face is changing, that's for sure, and compared to the little guy behind you, you're leagues ahead.


And when you add this little oompah into the calculation, I guess I have to admit, my girl, you're getting up there.


Okay, there's no denying it. Not even six yet, the telltale signs are impossible to ignore.

We're very proud of you!

Just promise me one thing, baby. Promise me, no matter how much older you and I both get...promise me...
...it won't fly by too fast.

Friday, January 18, 2008

Ready to move on

Last year I pounced on the end-of-Christmas, cleaning up every last remnant one day post-New Year's. I was ready to dive into 2007, a 3-month-old on my hip (not sitting quite yet) and much to get back into order. The only mistake I recall from that year (looking back) was interrupting our family with a pooch. We survived, and adjusted, and we continue to adapt.

He's a sweet dog, shame on me for having hard-feelings for a pup. My hands are just fuller, standards of clean somewhat lower, and those days before he arrived crystal clear. Everything happens for a reason, I guess (even those bouts of insanity).

I'm aiming for another good one, haven't you come to expect it? It took a bitter cold, nasty, hell-has-froze-over day like today to get me started. I even skipped open gym (can you imagine?!) Christmas 2008 is going to be the best Christmas ever, I already know it! I learned well that too many toys takes away from our enjoyment. Last year found me scurrying in and out of stores last minute, do we have enough, do we have enough, was my concern. This year we kept it simple.

Our collection of SpongeBob Legos is growing, and if memory serves me right, that's about it.
A couple of educational games nabbed for Lauren, GameBoy this and Playstation that, oh, and aside from Santa's delights there were the robes.

All packed up, this time I did it right. My favorite store, Target, thrilled me with their selection of boxes, every ornament in its place. Boys box, girls box, Mom and Dad's special box. What fun we'll have, see you there!


CHRISTMAS 2008, or bust!

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Win a house!

Our children are balanced in their demeanors and their souls radiate confidence. "That's how kids are supposed to be," our friends admire. Having mothered all three and learned the craft well, our approach is unconventional, though our philosophy's straightforward, "Believe in your best life."

We will homeschool our children to make all dreams possible---our tribe by our side, our children's dignity intact, and the freedom to decide exactly how we'll be enriched. To own acres of land would mean an ecosystem to indulge in, with creatures to investigate, new terrain to navigate, and nature's rhythms to weave into our own.

Tennessee's mild climate inspires plots for an "edible schoolyard" garden, its only assignment being, to awaken a taste for the earth. Young rangers riding shotgun with Daddy, shaping the grounds on his lawnmower; blackberry-stained fingers helping Momma crimp the pie crust, breakfast made special by serving it warmed.

Excursions into town, sights set on Dairy Queen, spirited Bluegrass beckoning us to its festival; someday, adolescent views tested before a crackling firepit, their voices a comfort as our newborn falls to sleep.

At ages five, three, and one, our children's memories are just being created and our rituals continue to evolve. But one thing is certain---we're prepared to succeed upon this foundation---my husband's woodshop a-buzzin', his meticulous eye and brilliant hands building craftsmanship into his furniture..., and me right beside him, a set of tools of my own, building a legacy of lives well-lived.

Saturday, December 29, 2007

Reading

Empires of the Word: A Language History of the World,
Nicholas Ostler

Experiences in Visual Thinking, Robert H. McKim

S. I. Hawakaya
Language in Thought and Action
Symbol, Status, and Personality

The basic writings of Sigmund Freud:
Contents: Psychopathology of everyday life.--The interpretation of dreams.--Three contributions to the theory of sex.--Wit and its relation to the unconscious.--Totem and taboo.--The history of the psychoanalytic movement.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Sorry!


The Christmas edition, designed by Lauren

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Music

My 7 year old son and I just discovered You Tube. I was looking for a video of SpongeBob's Best Day Ever, and was thrilled to find one with lyrics scrolling across the screen. That night we searched for another of my favorite kidz songs, Nowhere, by the Naked Brothers Band. I also love Banana Smoothie, my husband likes Crazy Car, and my son likes L.A. (the mystery of the initials intrigues him) in case you happen upon the disc.

These are the b-e-s-t songz e-v-e-r!

Monday, November 12, 2007

The Arizona Project

Our first "school-like" project, we entered Arizona into the geography fair. Unlike the assignments I recall from my own school years prior, this was a blast. We started a month-and-a-half early, and worked at a casual pace building our presentation.

Lauren and I shared the work, as is allowed when the intention is true learning. But her creativity and effort shine through.


The 48th state, Arizona was established in 1912. The 13 rays on the state flag represent the original colonies and mimic the sunset. The blue is liberty blue, from the U.S. flag, and the copper star stands for the large amount of copper mining. The drawing depicts Geronimo, chased by U.S. cavalry, he leaps off a cliff, shouting his own name before landing safely in the river below.

Arizona's natural resources as they are distributed throughout the state, significant landmarks,

and a historical timeline of AZ compared with U.S. history. Twenty-seven states were represented this year.

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

Higher Ed

Alpha, beta, gamma, delta, epsilon,...zeta, eta, theta, iota,...kappa, lambda, mu, nu, xi, omicron,...pi, rho, sigma, tau, upsilon,...phi, chi, psi, omega. Other than the word "zeitgeist" in psychology class, this was the only other useful bit of information I gained in college.

Thursday, October 25, 2007

Cultural Literacy

The ability to interact successfully within any culture requires a familiarization with its dominant figures, belief systems, and vocabulary. My children are privileged to study Egypt, Greece, Rome, and the Middle Ages up to modern times, at our leisure.

We can delve as deeply as we like into the construction of pyramids, gaze uninterrupted at mummies in all stages of preparation and excavation, and we can skim over the lineage of pharaohs until we get a better understanding of the system of governance.

Currently, Greek mythology is our fancy, a subject I faintly recall being dangled in front of me in one of the "gifted" classes I was forced to attend. The characters and their stories had little significance to me at the time, as I hadn't been told how they figured into the scheme of things. Years later, as my daughter colors and covets the god and goddess "trading cards" she pulled from our History Pockets, I'm so glad I have more time to explain.

Usborne Greek Myths and D'Aulaires' Book of Greek Myths are casual reads that pump names like "Aphrodite, Heracles, Eurystheus, Arachne, and Persephone" into her mind's eye. Two headed dogs, women with snakes for hair, labrynths and melted wax wings are associations she'll make for the rest of her life.
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Already she dislikes mean Hera. The stories, woven together, teach us about archetypes, that floating fabric of circumstance we keep stepping into. But beyond the stories is the simple, low key transference of knowledge that is the delight of homeschooling. Learning is never a chore.

She beams at me as she connects the names to the stories, picks them out of movies and cartoons that also flash before her evolving consciousness. Hannah Montana, Suite Life of Zack and Cody, and the mistold story of Pocahontas are as relevant as the rest. We don't live in ancient times, we study it. 2007 is where we reside full-time, seeking castles, no less.

I differ from many of my fellow homeschooling mothers, whom I deeply respect for the world they create for their children. Classical music in the background, tv's turned off, they're not numbed, but horrified by the media spewed forth today. While the classically homeschooled children I know will have a special ear for harmony in music, fluidity in art, a vision for order in society above all, I'm not sure they'll survive the chaos they'll need (in order) to perform.

My vision encompasses all realms, walking away from the garbage effects no change, defines reality as hopeless. One small measure of genius is the ability to gather the reins of all the lost horses, and whisper their spirits back into line. If my children grow up unable to tame animals, I'll consider my efforts a failure.
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In consequence, they must fit into society seamlessly, Eds, Edds, and Eddys, and all. Their vocabulary will match that of their peers, yet their cores will resonate differently. Solid family base, strong relationships carried forth into the world, a solemn embrace of life speaks volumes. We are not just socialized, we're literate, so there.

Monday, October 15, 2007

Thursday, October 11, 2007

Friday, October 5, 2007

My Barnes and Noble loves me

We entered a drawing to win Julie, the newest American Girl doll. Her story takes place in 1974, just one year after my own birthdate.

I'm an official historical figure.


To my daughters' great delight, WE WON!

Now, when the line of American Boy dolls, books, and video games comes out,

I will be OVER THE MOON!

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

Madison's 1st b-day

was at a favorite Dairy Queen

Everybody came to celebrate!











Aunts Susie and Patti got in on the silliness.

And, the cartwheel-a-thon...
Cole scored 206 forward rolls

Lauren did 152 cartwheels.

I could hardly believe their dedication and performance.
I'm a very proud mom!

Sunday, September 9, 2007

Abode Design

My friends Jay and Jason have a design business. They are geniuses at creating balance out of the eclectic.



Clientelle has been building over the past couple years, and though Jason's best dream would be to have his own show,

for now, his art is featured on




the front page of
the At Home
section of
our local newspaper.


Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Mommy says they're real

A fairy's wig


Her nimble boat


And a secret key













Why wouldn't they believe?